Archive for April, 2011

I love my boyfriend but now i got pregnant and i must break up with him.

I loved him since i was in 6th grade and i met him in church. My friend ask him out for me but he was a gentleman and told me no because im too young. I liked him for a long time, i tough he had a gf but turns out he didn’t. Time pass and he told me that hes been liking me ever since he defended me from this boy that was talking sexual stuff about me. But he didn’t ask me out until 6 months later because he felt guilty he would take advantage of a little girls crush. So he ask me if i really liked him he ask me that 3 times just to makes sure i was serious so i told him i did. I was so happy and also because next year we were going to be in the same school for the first time. I was going to be a freshman and he was going to be a senior.

But now im just so horny i don’t know whats wrong with me. I used to be a good girl that got good grades and now i turn into a big flirt. Ever since my boobs grew and butt. And well i was always skinny most people tought i was going to be flat. Now alot of guys like me and i go along with their flirting. But i don’t do nothing stupid or slutty not until my friend told her friend something. Shes funny but an idiot at the same time, she told him joking around that im into gangster black guys. And since hes Black he came up to me thinking he could get with me. At first he came up on a rude way but i stoped him. We became friends for 2 weeks, he tought i was white but i told him im Colombian he got more interested because he tought Colombians were all brown skin and for a while all he ask me was about Colombia. But little by little he started flirting with me again so i flirted back and i also started having a little attraction towards him. Only he went to far, while i was waiting for my boyfriend at my school. He came from behind and grab my ***, I got mad and slapped him, he took my phone and took of then i started chasing him into some big bushes in a park their he grab me from the waist pin me down and started kissing my boobs. I pushed him once but he just kept going and started fingering me, i wanted to stop but at the same time i didn’t want him to stop. And when i did tell him to stop it was too late because i myself already had undo my bra so he would of continue, i even told him to f**c* me but he told me he was not going to do it in the park so he invited me to his house. When i got home i decided not to go. And i felt so bad and embarassed i never have done nothing slutty like that. I even got mad at my bf because i was horny and he didn’t wanted to have sex with me. When he knew i wasn’t gonna go he got mad and told me if i dont dump my bf he was going to fight him and tell him. So i got scared and went to his house and we had sex. Now i got pregnant, i told my friend she told me to lie and say its my boyfriend and since our familys are cool they wont trip. But hes a virgin so i was going to convince him to go to bed with me. But then again i can’t do that to him. Not to mention that the babys father is black. My bf hes dark mexican but that wont work. YES I KNOW IM A SLUT, IM NOT PROUD OF IT EITHER. BUT IM ALSO SAD I DIDN’T WANT TO HURT MY BOYFRIEND I STILL LOVE HIM BUT I KNOW I LOST HIM. AND THE FATHER OF MY BABY DOESN’T WANT TO DEAL WITH IT. HE TOLD ME HE IS 16 AND DOESN’T HAVE A JOB.
My mom knows but my bf doesn’t know and i don’t know how to tell him that i cheated on him. And i wonder if he can actually help me with the baby.

How can i get pregnant?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and we’re trying to get pregnant, we only used protection (condoms and i tried birth control pills for about a month) for like 1 year without ever fearing of becoming pregnant, but not we want to have a baby.. and i’m very afraid that if we go to the doctor he could tells us one of us can’t have kids, i know i should probably go soon, but before i do it i’d like to try different stuff that you know for getting pregnant, like positions, what to do before and after we have sex and if you think there is a greater chance of becoming pregnant if we don’t have sex for a while and that way his semen is even stronger..
Please help us, this is putting us through a lot of stress!!
Thank you so much..
What i mean is do you think that not having sex for a few weeks can increase his sperm count..

Long story but I’ll try to cut it short. I’ve known my boyfriend since I was 15 (am 24 now), dated for 2 years, broke up and he got his girlfriend at the time pregnant with a daughter. they broke up after 5 months of having the child.. the thing with our relationship is we’ve always hung out and many times he has expressed that he never got over me. well, last year march, our paths crossed again and this time we decided to try out the relationship again.. his ex-girlfriend was so angry that we got back with each other and told him that i am never allowed to be around "her" child whatsoever; i was fine with that because she is the mother and I didn’t want to intrude or be the reason why he would lose his daughter (which i know could easily be dealt with in court, but didn’t want to make a deal out of that). Many times that I have slept over, she would call and demand for him to babysit, whenever he’d bring up that I was there, she would force him to kick me out of the house so he could babysit. Now I am 4 months pregnant with his child, at first she made a BIG deal out of this and said nasty remarks; now she’s saying how she wants time to getting comfortable and trusting me around her child, it’s just crazy because every other weekend i’m still banned from his house whenever his daughter is over, and it affects my mood greatly which I know is not healthy at all for my unborn child. Now another issue I have with him is he left this weekend to Ohio with his family and daughter, and told me before that if his daughter couldn’t come then he would bring me and to not take it offensively or think i’m his second option (which all in all to me it does come off as that), I let it go and forgot about it; now last weekend his sister was saying how she’s going to tell the family that he’s having a second child, and his remark "don’t say anything, dad will get mad if you tell them".. now that pissed me off because it seems to me that him and his dad are ashamed of the second child, it’s a slap to my face and that hurt so much. he’s saying now that his dad isn’t ashamed, but i’m not stupid. What I expected from him was to bring me to introduce his family to his new woman in his life and the mother of his second child.. but no, he promised me that he would bring me the next time because it’s only fair, which still upsets me because what if the next time I have my baby and I’m supposed to show up there and surprise all of them with a baby they’ve never known about? These 2 issues have completely ripped our relationship, I’ve packed my belongings from his house, and now I don’t know whether to work things out, or just move on and focus on my future and blessing. I just need others opinions and answers on this issue.

She just can not drink anything and as well not eating for 24hrs now.

How to get a pregnant belly?

For a play I’m going to be playing the part of a woman who’s 3-4months pregnant. In one of the scenes my skin’s got to be on show, so I can’t just use one of those shove-a-pillow-up-there tricks for that part; so does anyone know anything that will bloat my stomach out for a bit? Thanks for any suggestions :)
Lol of course I wouldn’t get myself pregnant for the purpose of a play! I wouldn’t do anything dangerous to myself; I was wondering something along the lines of if there was any food out there to get super-bloated or something.

Best Sex Position For Getting Pregnant?

My fiance’ and I are trying to get pregnant. Does anyone have any idea on certain positions that work best??

My boyfriend smokes marijuana. About 3 weeks ago we started trying to conceive. We have been having unprotected sex almost everyday, and he has been ejaculating in me every time. The reason being, we’ve heard that smoking marijuana lowers your sperm count and we want to ensure that I become pregnant. Do you think it will be hard for me to get pregnant?

well please don’t judge me but i am 16 and i want to get pregnant and i am probably is already but i just want to seek some advice on this. Is it normal to feel this way? How do you explain this to your parent and family?

what are some ways to get pregnant right away?

my boyfriend wants to have a baby, but i don’t know if he’s serious about us. i want him to be there for me after we actually have the baby. i’m afraid to give him what he wants, because i think i might be punishing him for what my dad did to my mom abandoned my sister and i when we were really young girls. I love this guy so much and would do anything to make hime happy. i’m not saying that i don’t want to have a this baby cause i do, but i everytime i try to ask if he’s serious he says yes and he’ll be there for me and the baby, but i’m not sure if i believe him what do you think i should do with a situation like this? i honestly love this guy to a pulp and he says he loves me too, i know it’s not your decision, but i need someone elses opinion. can you guys help me.

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