I had sex unprotected for the first time on my period and my bf busted in me twice.. my friend told thats the way youd be highly unlikely to get pregnant but then i heard its highly likely sooo please help me out?

I’m 27 and have been living with my boyfriend for about one year. I just found out I am pregnant, while he is on vacation until next week. In past conversations he has expressed his feelings for not ever having kids, and his fear that I may be trying to get pregnant, which I have always assured him that I actually don’t want to get pregnant any more than he does, apart from having my own reasons (huge student loan debt, desire to pursue a grad school education, having just got my life together in the last few years). Anyway, the reason I went off birth control three to four months ago is because I was unemployed, we were moving apartments in a very expensive city, and I didn’t believe I could afford it. Also, the prescription I had been renewing was out of refills months ago, and I wasn’t sure it was even legal for me to keep refilling it. I lost my health insurance during my last semester at school, as I was one credit too short to have the plan. Since graduating in December, I have not tried to get new health insurance, and thus have waited to get back on birth control, until the obvious just recently happened. I do not believe my boyfriend and I are really in love, and I’m really not financially stable enough to consider having a child right now. I care so much about my boyfriend, and I believe that we will agree on what to do, but I must say that I am so humiliated and mortified that the one thing we both didn’t want has happened. I honestly hoped to have the abortion this weekend so it would be over with by the time I told him (unless I healed and opted to just NOT tell him, out of my own fear- I admit), but today the doc said he couldn’t do the procedure because I am barely over a week along, and so I have to wait two weeks. Now I can’t decide how to tell my boyfriend, or if I shouldn’t. I do know that he is adamant about not having kids, and I am not ready either. I am also just humiliated and afraid that he will resent me, not be able to handle the stress of this occasion, and become completely alienated from me. I don’t foresee him trying to leave as finding a place to live elsewhere would be extremely difficult for him and for me, but I fear he will stay and treat me badly for making the one thing he didn’t want to happen happen. I know he has a responsibility in all this too, and some part of the decision, but I just feel that if we both want to abort, perhaps I could save our relationship a ton of stress if I didn’t tell him and did it on my own. Many of my friends think I should break up with him anyway, not tell him, and go through with the abortion on my own. I can’t imagine having to pay double my rent in less than 2 weeks, pay for an abortion, break up with my boyfriend, and start life out alone all at once. I’m seriously just feeling mortified and scared that our relationship won’t survive this, because we’re not in love. I’ve always believed that one doesn’t have to be in love to be in a relationship, so I want to keep ours going, but what if he never wants to have sex with me ever again? I’m just so stuck, and my original plan to deal with this situation has not worked, leaving me even more lost. Any help would be great. And pro-lifers out there–I’ve already had one abortion and have no problem doing another one, so answers involving judgment of my values and decision on this will be disregarded.

I’ve been thinking it over. All the pain, weight gain, bloating, swelling, fatness, vomiting, sweating, weird sleeping positions, diet, emotional roller coaster…all of it, for a little bundle of joy. I would like a kid to be half me, half my man but I don’t want to go through the pregnancy thing. I don’t know about surrogate mothers (you have to watch them very carefully). I definitely want to adopt. Right now I’m in no position to get pregnant and no one’s pressuring me to do so or anything. All these pregnant people and kids around me…I’m just not sure. Maybe one day I’ll cave in and get pregnant but ever since I saw a live birth video in health ed in high school…I’ve had no desire to get pregnant. I don’t want to know if this is normal or not, I’m not asking that. I’m asking if there’s anyone else out there who feels the same way and how to deal with it.

im scared because i switched from the shot to the pill but ive heard sooo many cases of how women are getting pregnant even while taking it faithful and what not…so if thats the case why are doctors giving them out.women come to doctors for contraceptives sop women can protect themselves..people who dont want a family then and there and i feel bad that this happens especially when the female thought she was going to be protected i know there is always a chance you can get pregant while havin sex but if so why even have the pills out there

just wondered if anyone else felt really pleased why they got there milk back or if first time pregnant got there milk in?

i feel really excited starting to feel more real now and knowing that my breast milks here makes me feel happy knowing if all is well i can feed my baby again!

maybe its just me being strange but its made me really happy and more excited now lol
oh i should add this is my second pregnancy and with my son i breast fed up to 6months!

Me an My boyfriend have been trying for 7-9 months and not getting any results so i’ve went to three doctors during that 7-9 mo. gap. first one I had diagnosed me with dub (Dysfunctional uterine bleeding) due to hormone imbalance, because i would come on my period and stay on for 3 weeks or more. I honestly thought it was normal because heavy bleeding prolonged bleeding runs in my mothers side of the family. But of course i was wrong, she gave me birth control pills to balance my hormones and she claimed that this DUB shouldn’t have been stopping me from getting pregnant,she told me to take the bc for 3 months and to just eat healthy and i’ll be fine. I did that but after still no baby and my DUB is still here. The next two doctors said the exact same thing. Now i recently met a new doc who better explained to me what was going on "thank god" she said that I have a high level of testosterone and the fact im overweight is not allowing me to ovulate sadly and she said its also a possibility of PCOS she basically prescribed that I take bc but also explained there’s no way to know how long it will take for my hormones to act right. I said i’d do it but while im doing it i want to help my body balance hormones and loose this weight. I’m 5′3 and 230lb, I know it sound like alot but if you’d seen me you wouldn’t know thanks to the testosterone i have alot of muscle alot of people say I look 170 or 180, but anywho just please help me somebody can you give me tips on what to do what not to do teas and herd and all that good stuff I’m really aiming to be preggo by late december or early january??????

OPKS? (Whats that, sorry I’m not very savvy with this stuff)

And do those little ovulation pee-on-stick tests work?

I don’t need people being negative and telling me not to. I’m just curious; doing research on pregnancy for my child development class. So what are the best ways to get pregnant around age 16/17. Thanks!
Okay let me rephrase this; I obviously KNOW having unprotected sex is the best. But are there certain eating/sleeping habits you should form. Any medicines, certain times you should have sex, etc. ?

I had my Appendix removed May 26th 2011, and am planning to get pregnant: how long should I wait to get pregnant? How long before its safe?

The scenario is he was cheating on her with you. When you got together he only had one kid by her. Now they are about to have 3 kids together. They have been together for 3 yrs now.