Can u help a upset pregnant woman please?
the following question i ask on yahoo and people answers me in a very nice way i ilke it but my is that my husband is saying it is ok some times people gets angery on other stuff like may be she was having bad day that is why she talk to u like that but why do i care that she was having bad day she should talk with me like a professional …………….am i ryt or wrong?
I am really upset today because of my gynecologist?
I am 5 month pregnant and today was my 2nd appointment with the dc …………………she doesn’t know how to talk………….ok you answer me………..
i asked her can u give a number of pregnancy classes or something that can help me out on this matter?
her answer was……………….""Don’t you have eyes can’t you see on walls all numbers and information""
ok if i could not see ( i can see) but is that the way to talk to a patient……………..?
i am 1st time pregnant and emotionally weak but today she made me crazy………..how she goona deliver my baby?……………..oh God i am literally upset and crying……it is not the only thing she said more things like that………….please tell me doctor are not responsible to deliver ryt information to new patients?………………..oh well
if i need to change the doctor how can i find new one and the biggest fear is this if the new one also will be the same or worst then? 
i dont have any family member here except my husband so i feel alone and …………thank you all for help . North York Canada.
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If you feel that your doctor is not taking you seriously I would find another doctor. This is your first pregnancy you have a lot of questions and concerns and you want your doctor to respect you for wanting to know whats going on with your pregnancy, which is your absolute right to now. I know how difficult it is not having many people around to help and support you…I went through that with my son before he was born. Just look in your phone book or online for any doctors in your area that take your insurance and you can ask the receptionist for information on the doctors there…this will help you decide on a doctor thats right for you…
Im sorry that you had to deal with this, some people just don’t care about others….GOOD LUCK and CONGRATS on being pregnant!!
You can’t speak either!! And it’s technically not the doctors responsibility to get numbers for you unless it’s medical. If you don’t like your doctor, find a new one. Every doctor is different.
I would find a new gynecologist ASAP. If she is being rude and refuses to help you, do not give her your business or the gift of delivering your baby. I went to a place and I hated it, I should have left after the second visit because it was just awful and I regret not finding a new place. She has no reason to be short and rude with you. If your new one is the same or worse, you just have to keep moving. I know it may be a lot of trouble but no point in giving a doctor your businesss if they are rude.
BTW: no one told me this before I was pregnant but its a good idea to find a pediatrician or family docter you will take your child to after they are born before you give birth. Make sure you can give the immunizations there or find out where you can.
Your doctor should not speak to anyone like that!! sometimes doctor’s think they are better than other people… if that doctor makes you uncomfortable or feel bad about anything, you should change doctor’s. it should be easy enough to find a new doctor… you don’t want to deal with that crap for the next 4 months, and you shouldn’t have to!
Obviously English is not your first language but that is no reason for your doctor to be rude to you. I love going to see my midwife they are so very friendly and make me look forward to having my baby, especially when I have doubts. They should be there for you no matter what query you have. I suggest you change doctors, and start feeling good about your pregnancy
congratulations & good luck xxx
One thing that my doctor ask is if I have any questions or concerns. If your doctor is that rude to your now I would recommend finding another doctor. Since you have no family where you are, perhaps ask a friend or maybe a co-worker for a recommendation on a good obgyn. It doesn’t sound like she was having a bad day, that she is just rude like that.
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