I’ve been thinking it over. All the pain, weight gain, bloating, swelling, fatness, vomiting, sweating, weird sleeping positions, diet, emotional roller coaster…all of it, for a little bundle of joy. I would like a kid to be half me, half my man but I don’t want to go through the pregnancy thing. I don’t know about surrogate mothers (you have to watch them very carefully). I definitely want to adopt. Right now I’m in no position to get pregnant and no one’s pressuring me to do so or anything. All these pregnant people and kids around me…I’m just not sure. Maybe one day I’ll cave in and get pregnant but ever since I saw a live birth video in health ed in high school…I’ve had no desire to get pregnant. I don’t want to know if this is normal or not, I’m not asking that. I’m asking if there’s anyone else out there who feels the same way and how to deal with it.

i would like to know one of the best sex position to get pregnant quicker i know off of them work but i would like to know a better one!!

IM trying to have a child with my 5 month husband.I know that the question is a bit odd but i somewhere heard that there is a a sex pose that is effective to get pregnant.do you know what it is?

how long does it usually take to get pregannt after not takin your birthcontrol..i have been off it for 3 months and still nothing? is there any way that can help us get pregnant.. positions or anything? Please help i am desperate to be a mommy!! any suggestions please help!!

I’ve been at my "temporary" job for about 8 months now. I’m about 5 months pregnant but I haven’t told my employer yet due to all the "horror stories" I’ve heard about where women get fired or given a hard time once they tell the employer they’re pregnant. My position is through a temp agency and they actually just laid off about 75% of the temps last week, but my agency said that because of my good performance I was being extended. I asked the agency how long the extension was and they say more will be let go in November and February and some will be kept on "indefinitely and probably hired on permanent. I’m pretty sure if I’d told them I’m pregnant they would have laid me off too, but I just so happen to not be showing much (actually I’m just now starting to show a little bit).

Now I’m trying to figure out how to go about informing them that I’m pregnant. I was thinking that I would just let the temp agency know and let them know that I would like to stay on the position as long as possible but that I’m having my baby in January and would of course have to take off when I have the baby. I don’t know if telling the temp agency is enough or if I need to also tell a supervisor at my job (or if the agency would just communicate that to the job for me). When they laid all those people off last week the company I’m working for told us that it wasn’t their job to inform us if we were being laid off it was the job of the agency, which makes me think I should communicate my pregnancy to the agency. I would actually prefer for them to lay me off than to leave myself because at least I could get unemployment but if I take off on my own I’m not protected under FMLA because I would be employed just under a year when I have the baby – in fact January will be 12 months. Any thoughts on this???

Ok, I know, have sex. But what can you do to make sure you do? Like foods to eat, positions to do, ect.