How to get my pregnant wife in the mood?
Thursday, December 31st, 2009 at
12:17 am
My wife is in her 2nd trimester.. and the doctor said its safe for us to have sex. But its hard to get her in the mood, any tips? also, what are some ways to make her happier during sex? what do pregnant women like?
thankyou.
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do all the chores before she gets home… having nothing to worry about when I get home is always better than my hubby putting the moves on me
eat her out, grap her and just kiss all over her body, maybe spice up the sex by analsex maybe?
No. Don’t eat her out that basically could harm the cycle of the baby. In preparation for the baby’s arrival eating her out could harm the Virgina having sex is find as long as you don’t stretch out the Virgina.
she will tell you if you listen. if it were me i would love for him to just give me a good rub down and cover me in kisses and sweet words before even trying to do anything else. romance can go a long way when your feeling all fat and grumpy. also she may be having problems with lube thanks to the pregnancy so your should use some to make it more comfortable for her if you need it.
alot of women who are pregnant may feel a little self conscious since they’re body is changing. make her feel beautiful and wanted and sexy. if u make it all about her and not worry about Your needs, she’s bound to want to spend quality time with you. be a romantic and loving husband!
Anal sex is such a no no, in pregnancy.
If she’s feeling awful, depressed, sick…feeling down isnt a great time to feel in the mood. You have to make it all about her, seems like you already know that though from your wording…since you care about what she likes.
Make sure there are no worries, any other children need to be asleep in bed. Any annoying pets, put away…like birds need to be covered in case they start singing loudly.
Turn off the ringer and turn down the volume on the answering machine.
Put on some calming background sound or music, like an ornamental waterfall, just something calming but not distracting…its really difficult to relax if her mind is occupied with (fill in the blank) and climaxing may be near impossible.
#1 rule, she has to be turned on before you penetrate or go down on her
wait until she’s dying for you, after making her wait just a little…give in to her demands….she will demand, if she’s turned on.
#2 figure out what turns her on. What are her fantasies? Give her the eye candy she likes, for ex does she like seeing you turned on? Does touching her breasts arouse her?
Like the other poster said, make her feel loved and rub her body down….be polite and dont point out anything she doesnt like about herself. Dont rub her down so good that she falls asleep either!
Once you do all that, & you tune into ALL her needs…emotional and otherwise, it should be a done deal. But, if she cant get turned on at that moment, try later….dont be angry, just try later….figure out what she likes….it wouldnt hurt to ask her what she wants. What she thinks about when she climaxes, get her lubricants and flavored body oils. Get a kama sutra book that explains the most sensitive body areas and how to excite them, like her lower back, her thighs, her neck….have fun!
Forgot to mention, it may be a good idea to give her a body massage at the beginning and at the end, if you only want to do one….maybe at the end, then she wont feel ignored after you’re satisfied…specially if she didnt climax, she needs a rewarding experience if you want to have sex again anytime soon…..unless you figure out how to excite her, which you will if you keep trying