I want to get pregnant but I'm scared. Normal?
Thursday, July 29th, 2010 at
2:48 am
I’ve gotten past the birth fear and I realize once I start trying it doesn’t always happen over night but everytime I say let’s try I freak out and change my mind last second. Is it normal? I really want to start my family soon how can I help this stupid fear from getting in my way?
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lol…I totally understand where your coming from. When I got pregnant the first time, my hubby and I weren’t really trying at all. I got off birth control and less than 2 months later, I was pregnant. Now we hae a 2 year old and it’s better than anyone could ever tell you about having a child. Yes…it is life changing and, yeah, the labor and delivery part of it sucks, but it is so worth it.
I’m going to be getting my Mirena iud out next week and I gotta tell you, possibly having a second child is really freaking me out. I really don’t like being pregnant (all the restrictions, back pain, tiredness, etc.) Also, having two is definately going to be hard work. Plus the new baby thing of sleepless nights and colic aren’t appealing to me much, either. But I’m not getting any younger and I know it may be more difficult to get pregnant this time as I am 3 years older and over 30.
My advice to you would just do it! lol Have fun with your partner having a lot of sex! Don’t necessarity try. Just live your life and see what happens. I believe you will have a child when your meant to. Honestly, when the time comes and you have your child in your arms, all those fears you had about having your first baby will seem silly and you will have no regrets!
I don’t really have an answer for you but i get what you going through. I’m going through the same thing. I have a good Job, a great husband and life is good and we have a good environment to bring up any child but im scared to start.
Talk to your partner and share your feelings with him. Talk to your friends who have children. Talk to people, im not saying it will work but i have been talking to people in my life and its really eased up my anxiety.
Goodluck